I have never experienced fall with this poignancy before. I have in the past considered myself a “fall-person”, and have always looked forward to it, but this year I was actually sad to see summer go… In the recent weeks, I have, more than once, found myself haunted by ghosts of my past on the streets of New York.. And partly due to season, I have also become painfully aware of the fleeting nature of things. Of life itself.
And yet, this is as important a part of the life cycle as any other. Shit needs to die before it can rejuvenate again. (I prefer not to get too poetic about this…) Change is constant, change is inevitable. I can’t believe how many years I tried to fight against a natural change that should have been happening in me all along. We can do that, sure! We can resist change, thinking that doing so will benefit the people close to us. Truth is, it doesn’t. Preventing your own change and growth, or somebody else’s, is really fucking unhealthy, and will bite you in the ass sooner or later.
I end with a more eloquently written quote I received from my friend today:
“We are not the same persons this year as last; nor are those we love. It is a happy chance if we, changing, continue to love a changed person.” -William Somerset Maugham, writer (1874-1965)