I finished reading another life-changing book yesterday: Ursula K. Le Guin’s “A Wizard of Earthsea.” Phew. Man. Even through the tales of wizardry, dragons and magic spells, I was able to relate to every line, every chapter, as if they told the story of my life. I am in awe of the gift this woman has for metaphor, for story-telling. And before you read my blog any further, I suggest you read the book. It’s the easiest read ever.
Spoiler alert!

We carry within us all the experiences, thoughts and emotions we’ve ever had, especially those that were left unresolved. Things don’t just take care of themselves and fade away at some point. Until we resolve those issues, we continue dragging around older versions of ourselves. Janita 1.0, Janita 2.0, Janita 3.0…. Trust me, some of it wasn’t pretty, and I was hoping to leave them behind. Turns out I can’t. They’re all in me.

In order for me to become a true individual (definition: autonomous, distinct, indivisible entity), I will have to accept, understand and own all of these versions of me. That, I suppose, is to become a complete human being. To get there requires that I open some more cans of worms, but now I’m getting quite eager to do it. And here I get back to the brilliant mind of Ms. Le Guin: how surprising the places where we find pieces to unlock our puzzles!